"Camino de Santiago for my Carol"
Francis Gordon-Alleyne’s Camino de Santiago Challenge
This September, Francis Gordon-Alleyne will walk 117km of the Camino de Santiago in memory of his wife Carol.
His goal is to raise funds and awareness for Action for Carers Surrey and Phyllis Tuckwell Hospice Care, two charities that supported him during one of the most difficult times in his life.
What inspired you to support Action for Carers Surrey through your Camino walk?
My wife Carol was diagnosed with non-smoker’s lung cancer during the COVID lockdown. It was a devastating diagnosis, delivered over the phone, and we were told she had just 18 months.
Through Macmillan and the Royal Surrey County Hospital, I was referred to Action for Carers Surrey. I registered and attended several sessions and events, and the support I received was invaluable. The support and guidance during the pre-grief process helped me immensely.
Carol was the inspiration behind this fundraiser. Her strength and compassion continue to guide me.
Carol worked as a horticultural therapist at the Defence Medical Rehabilitation Centre at Headley Court, supporting injured Armed Services personnel. She was awarded the British Empire Medal for her work. I used to volunteer there too. Carol was the inspiration behind this fundraiser. Her strength and compassion continue to guide me.
Over the years, I have supported Phyllis Tuckwell Hospice Care and Macmillan as well. They were also there for us during Carol’s illness. This time, I wanted to do something for Action for Carers Surrey, whose support was a lifeline for me as a carer.
Why do you think it is important to raise awareness and funds for carers in Surrey?
Action for Carers Surrey provides a lifeline. From emotional support to practical advice and community events, they help carers feel seen, heard, and valued.
Raising awareness helps more carers discover the support available to them. Raising funds ensures that these services can continue and grow.
What made you choose the Camino de Santiago as your fundraising challenge?
I first walked part of the Camino nine years ago with a group of five friends. It was incredibly tough. I had blisters, lost toenails, and walked in temperatures between 36 and 42 degrees. But it changed us all. I am not religious, but the Camino has deep spiritual roots and whenever I face a physical or emotional challenge, I walk. It gives me space to think, reflect, and heal.
For me, it is about the five stages of grief and this walk represents the final stage which is acceptance.
What do you hope your fundraiser will achieve for Action for Carers Surrey?
Two things. I want to raise awareness of Action for Carers Surrey and the incredible work they do. I also want to raise funds to help sustain their services. The support I received was life-changing and I want others to have access to that same help.
Action for Carers Surrey provides a lifeline. From emotional support to practical advice and community events, they help carers feel seen, heard, and valued.
How have people responded to your fundraiser so far?
The response has been amazing. People remember my previous Camino walk and have offered everything from encouragement to donations. Although some do think I am mad for doing it again but they understand why. Even my podiatrist donated after hearing my story. It has been heart-warming to see how many people care.
How can people follow your journey and support your fundraiser?
You can follow along and donate via the link.
A huge thank you, and good luck, to Francis from all of us at Action for Carers Surrey